The church
was an experience, as I said, and for at least five years we enjoyed
it. I loved singing in a large wonderful choir. We so enjoyed San Hutchison,
the organist and those on staff. We made so many good friends: the Guyers,
Carters, Bruces. Being a large church offered so much. I went with a
group to Estes Park, Colorado one year and taught a decoupage class.
The choir sang downtown one Fourth of July with other choirs and Deanne
Warwick was one of the guests.
The staff and their wives went to Dallas for several days for a seminar.
Warren went into primitive Mexico to be with some Wycliffe Bible Translators
that our church supported. One summer Warren and I used Milligan’s
trailer that was available in the Outer Banks, North Carolina.
Several plays were put on. I was in one for “Our Town”.
One year I drove a wonderful Women’s Association Group to an Indian
area where they held their church all day long on Sunday with a building
just for cooking and a large area for games. We had saved Campbell Soup
labels and were able to present them with a van. They in turn invited
us for lunch. They were so gracious to us and I will always remember
when it was time to leave they wanted to do it Indian style. They formed
a circle and we went into the circle shaking hands with each one. As
I was shaking this one Indian’s hand with his steel blue eyes
looking into mine he said, “yesterday I did not know you, tomorrow
I will miss you.” It brought tears to my eyes. I thought it was
so beautiful.
Milligan was an egomaniac and made it very difficult work with. It all
blew up when he had a member on trial. It was the beginning of hell
for us and people took sides. Warren at this point thought Milligan
was way off base and because Warren didn’t agree with Milligan
he was fired, which of course he personally couldn’t do. Presbytery
stepped in dismissing the entire staff. Our friends were so good to
us at this point, very supportive and caring. I wish I could somehow
show that Warren was the only one on staff that stood up for the congregation
and Milligan was, and as one doctor put it, he was, “mentally
ill.”
Warren was the only staff member Presbytery allowed to come back and
conduct marriage and funerals. That tells you something but we went
through such emotion for over a year. It was hard to take people snubbing
you that had been friendly before, but our friends were our pillars
of strength and I felt God used them to give us the encouragement we
needed at that time.